Substance Abuse and Parenting: Re-teaching How to Parent
Parents who abuse controlled substances have a higher risk of abusing their children, but research shows they could be educated to be more effective parents.
A review paper published online in Nature’s Pediatric Research journal this month indicates that along with treatment for substance abuse, parents can greatly benefit from therapy aimed at redirecting their behavior and building parent-child attachment.
“Substance abuse is a sign of a person’s inability to self-regulate and the same is true for those people when it comes to parenting,” said lead author Kimberly Renk, a clinical psychologist and director of the Understanding Children and Families Laboratory at the University of Central Florida. “For a lot of people, they are reliving their own trauma from childhood and, given their background, they really don’t know how to parent well.”
Renk and co-author Dr. Neil W. Boris, Chief of Behavioral Health at Nemours Children’s Hospital, are calling for more research into effective parenting treatment models and for current treatments to recognize the risk to very young children and to incorporate an attachment-focused parenting intervention component to help protect them. There’s even some indication that addiction to substances may actually physiologically impact the way parents attach to and interact with their children.
Some studies indicate that dopamine – the chemical released in the body during a high – is also released during pleasing parent-child interactions. And that “good connection” is needed to help parents and young children bond. Several studies suggest craving for other substances may actually impede a person’s natural instinct to bond, nurture and protect offspring. More in-depth research is needed, Renk said.
“Society needs to do a better job helping substance-abusing parents connect with their children,” Boris said. “We need more funding to study models of intervention and need more providers trained to deliver those interventions.”
Dr. Neil W. Boris, Chief of Behavioral Health at Nemours Children’s Hospital.
This is no small problem. About 70 million children and adolescents live with at least one parent who abuses or is dependent on alcohol or an illicit drug, according to the study.
“Given the negative parenting practices that substance-involved mothers and fathers tend to exhibit as well as the poor outcomes that their children, particularly their young children, experience, evidence-based parenting interventions are an important complement to substance abuse treatments,” the authors conclude in their study.
Others involved in the study include: Ellen Kolomeyer, Amanda Lowell, Jayme Puff, Annelise Cunningham, Maria Khan and Meagan McSwiggan from UCF’s department of psychology.